Mother's Day 2009

Yesterday was Mother's Day. Not the easiest day of the year for me, I'm afraid. First, we go to church and hear all the beautiful tributes to mother's and that makes me feel guilty because I think I could have been a better mom in many ways. Despite their mother's debatable example, my girls have turned into good homemakers. They all like to cook, I think, and are good housekeepers. They are wonderful mothers, but I KNOW that they can't love their kids more than I did. It's also a hard day as I still miss my own mother very much, even though she passed away almost 40 years ago.

So many people comment on how great our kids have turned out, so we must have done something right. I often joke that we brought the wrong ones home from the hospital. (I wonder how my own biological children are doing?) Yes, the Lord just blessed us with special GOOD kids who turned out regardless of how their parents raised them.

Daran taught me to always look on the positive side of things. I recall his comments when coming home after school to a mom who was "couch-ridden" because of complications of pregnancy with my youngest......"Hi, mom - have you had a good day?" He even remembered to call and wish me "Happy Mother's Day" last night.

Daralyn - actually the child that I do claim. She went to school for the same reason that her mom did.....to have fun! Daralyn is beautiful - inside and out! So sweet and willing to give to and help her siblings and friends in many ways.

Kelly - the child we wondered if we'd live through raising - and now probably our most loving child. I think Kelly finally decided it was okay to be a girl. She hated getting her hair done and loved to climb trees. She had us worried sick at 2:00 a.m. when she was out delivering cookies to ask a guy (Bob) to MORP. She "didn't think it was that late."

Jaime - our resident blonde. Always good for a laugh with her comments. A 4.0 student at school with the nickname of "Not So". Brandon literally "robbed the cradle" with this one - she stayed for free in our hotel room the night before her wedding - but the only thing I'd change about her now is moving her closer to home! I miss her!!!

Then there is baby Jeff - the one the siblings say was spoiled rotten and got away with everything! They are probably right. A harder worker there never was, though. I used to say he was his father's slave-driver. He didn't like to stand around not working while his dad talked! He now has a clone, his nephew Matthew. But, Jeff turned out great and is soon to be our first doctor in the family.....too bad he didn't go out in geriatrics!

I love these kids!!! Being their mother has been the greatest gift in my life. I only hope they remember this tribute when it comes time to put mom in "the home". All I require in their homes is a room of my own with a t.v., bathroom handy, regular meals, and no stairs!!!

I'm Not Gloating.....Just Really Proud!!!

In our school district we have had a competition for the Fine Arts for 10 years which I have been co-chairman of along with a good friend, Mary Jane Penrod. It is known as the "West Side Fine Arts Competition" and has 5 divisions the high school-aged kids can enter in.....Piano, Vocal, Instrumental, Art-Painting, and Art-Drawing. The 1st and 2nd place winners receive savings bonds and plaques. This competition has been held in our small choir room in the Fine Arts Building for 10 years but will now move to our beautiful new auditorium which should be completed this summer.
During the past years I have tried to encourage my older piano students to enter the competition. Some have willingly done it, some consented almost at the point of a gun, and some flatly refused. Anyway, I have had several of my piano students score very well so this is the reason for this boastful blog!
2000 - Jaclyn Cox, a former student, took 2nd Place
2000 - (I don't take credit for this but my son, Jeff, took 2nd place in the Instrumental Division with his Alto Saxophone)
2001 - Cami Mumford took 2nd Place
2002- Cami Mumford took 1st Place
2004 - Candice Whitehead took 1st Place
2006 - Lacy Ralphs took 1st Place
2007 - Brynne Cook took 2nd Place
2008 - Josie Dansie took 1st Place
2008 - Brynne Cook took 2nd Place
2009 - Lori Mumford took 1st Place
According to my math, that is 5 1st Place winners in 10 years.....maybe I will brag! You see, I don't have a music degree from a university and I charge $25.00 a month for lessons while several of the 2nd place winners pay around $75.00 a month from accomplished teachers with music degrees. I have found that the judges don't necessarily look for the most difficult piece played, they just want the piece played well and that is what these students of mine have done.
So, forgive me for bragging but I am proud! I plan to do the competition for another year when we are in our new auditorium (with a BEAUTIFUL YAMAHA CONCERT GRAND PIANO.....9 foot 6 inch.....which will be a thrill for anyone to play) then turn my position over to someone else and hopefully go on a mission with Wayne.

The Week The Cows Left Home

Monday, February 2nd, our dairy cows were sold into the dairy buyout program, and since then life with my retired dairy farmer, Wayne, has been interesting. Here are some of the things that could be heard around our home on Tuesday, the first full day of his retirement.....

(Wayne - 5:00 a.m.) "I can't get back to sleep". (Carolyn) "You could go start cleaning out the den!" (Wayne - 8:00 a.m.) "Are we going to have breakfast?" (Carolyn) "It's not noon yet! We never eat until noon." (Wayne - 10:00 a.m.) "The phone is ringing." (Carolyn) "I've answered it for 32 years.....it's your turn now!" (Wayne - 12:00 noon) "Isn't it time for lunch?" (Carolyn) "We just ate breakfast! I'm never going to lose weight!!!" (Wayne - 5:00 p.m.) "I think I'll go to the road show practice with you." (Carolyn) "I think you're bored!" (Wayne - 5:05 p.m.) "Are we going to eat dinner first?" (Carolyn) "I think I'll look for a job."

We have managed to keep very busy this past month - a city council meeting, four adult education classes on Isaiah, four temple sessions, a couple of movies, two trips to Salt Lake, numerous road show events, and a 7 day vacation to Las Vegas and Southern Utah. We do miss our cows, however. I wonder how long that will last?

Enjoy some photos of Wayne in one of his final milkings, and the cows being loaded into trailors for the trip to Preston, then on to an appointment with the "grim reaper" in Salt Lake.

Pictures from our Trip

Since I haven't figured out how to put writing with photos yet, and I haven't had time to bug Nicole about how to do it, I thought I'd just post the photos with an explanation in this writing.

#1 - St. George Temple which we attended on February 14th

#2 - Excalibur Hotel in Las Vegas where we spent 3 nights

#3 - Wayne and I at Hoover Dam

#4 - Beautiful fountains at the Bellagio Hotel

#5 - Las Vegas Temple which we attended on February 18th

#6 - Manti Temple which we attended on February 19th

FUN TRIP - hope to never see Las Vegas again!!!

Our Semi-Retirement Trip Celebration

Now that Wayne is semi-retired (I still plan to post photos of the cows leaving home) we were able to take a weeks vacation. The main focus of this trip was meeting Jeff, Nicole, and Michael in Las Vegas as Jeff was attending the Western Veterinary Conference. How fun to be with them and celebrate Michael's 1st birthday!

Las Vegas is a place I don't plan to visit again. Things have really changed in the 33 years since I've been there. Children are now allowed on the casino floor - they just have to stay about 4 feet from the slot machines. That, to me, is like throwing a skunk into the jury box and telling the jury to disregard it. Between the gambling, smoking, and basically naked ladies dancing on tables in the middle of the day, I am grateful Michael was young enough he won't remember it. I felt like I wasn't old enough to be exposed to that crap! The highlights of the trip to Vegas were touring Hoover Dam, the Fountains at the Bellagio Hotel, shopping at the M & M World Store, and a session in the Las Vegas Temple.

On the way there (we drove because we actually had time to be away!) we spent time in St. George checking out church sites and also a session in that temple. On the way home we took two days to drive and detoured off of I-15 to go to Manti and attend a temple session there. I'm hoping with three temple sessions the Lord will forgive us for walking through Vegas casinos (which we had to in order to get to Jeff's room or our car!)

We had a great time, but were exhausted when we got home - Clifton had never looked better. Give me my boring life anyday with fresh smoke-less air to breathe. My knees will never forgive me for this trip with all the walking. I think I need to get them worked on.

Emotional Day.....

As I write this our cows are on their way to Preston, to be shipped to a meat packing place in Salt Lake. I will put on some photos in a few days, but I just wanted to express my feelings.
The dairy business has been a wonderful blessing to our family. Raising kids on a farm was something I'd recommend to anyone. They always had chores to do and no time to get in trouble. Yes, my husband came in at night stinky and very tired, but the point is that he enjoyed his work. We weren't rich but always made enough to pay bills, put food on the table, send two sons on missions, and college-educate all five of our kids.
But, all good things must come to an end. Wayne is now 63 years old and feels that his energy level isn't what it used to be and that now is the time to begin another phase of our lives. So, we have gone on the dairy buyout. We feel blessed to have been accepted into the program.
He will still farm in the spring and summer but we will now be free to pursue other things. His goal is temple attendance weekly, and maybe family history (wife's thoughts on that one). Hopefully a mission will be coming sometime, also.
I appreciate and love him so much. He is the hardest worker that I know. He will probably drive me nuts now that he has extra time, but I plan to put him to work on those many projects in the house and yard that have been neglected for years. We are now "seniors" on a fixed income. That, itself, sounds strange to me. Please pray for us in this transition in our lives.

Family Christmas Party

Our annual "Smart Family Christmas Party" was held on Friday, January 9th, while Jeff, Nicole, and Michael were home from Wisconsin. I had planned to include photos on this blog but this particular party was held in the dark. We had an 8 hour power outage that day so most of our party was spent packed into Daran's family room with a battery-operated lantern providing a little bit of light.

We managed to eat warmed up french dip thanks to Daran's camp chef stove in his garage and opened up gifts barely before total darkness. I coudn't even read the tags on my gifts to the family.

However, it was still fun and was definitely a party we won't soon forget. The grandkids had a blast with each other, which was the most important. The noise level probably reached well over 100 decibels, but who wants to keep their hearing anyway? LoriAnn is a saint for always volunteering her home for our gatherings. It always manages to get trashed!

Next year I've simply got to do things differently. WHY DO I PROCRASTINATE??? As usual, I was finishing up Christmas for the family the morning of the party. Problem is, I had Kamryn's quilt 3/4 bound, and was pinning the final side, when the power went off at noon. By 3:00, when the party was supposed to start at 3:30, I finally decided the quilt wouldn't get done. Well, we've had Kamryn in our family since May and I've known I would do her a quilt. What happened to last summer, or at least this fall? Sometimes I drive myself crazy!!! I did great-great grandparent histories for my kids and they, too, were finished the day before the party.

The main gift we gave the family was a family photo which turned out great! Everyone looked great, but it was a combination of 6 different photos, one of each family.

Anyway, Christmas has come and gone again and now I am putting away the decorations for another year. It will seem like about 3 months when it is time to get them out again. It was great being with Jeff, Nicole, and that darling baby Michael. We miss them so much!!! Hopefully they'll be living closer in 1.5 years when he is through with school.

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009!!!