Monday, December 22, 2008
Merry Christmas from Us!
Sunday, November 23, 2008
I Am Thankful For.....
First of all, my family. They are the most important things in my life. My husband, Wayne, is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He has been loving, kind, considerate, and treats me like a queen. He is the best father to his kids. Since he has milked cows ever since I have known him, he is also the hardest worker I know. I am grateful that he moved his family to Clifton. It has been the best place to raise responsible, good kids that were so busy helping around the farm they never had time to get into trouble. He spent tons of one-on-one time with each of them. Many were the times that they would come up to the house after doing their outside chores and say "I'd have been in 45 minutes ago, but I was talking to dad."
Of course, there are my five kids...Daran, Daralyn, Kelly, Jaime, and Jeff. We loved having our kids around and even enjoyed their teenage years. Life isn't the same without them living at home. We've decided that empty-nest isn't the best time of life. I am so proud of the wonderful parents that they are making to their own children. We are so blessed!
I am grateful for the choices my kids made in their eternal companions. They are all so different, but I love them tons. LoriAnn is a doll, and willing to help me out whenever needed. She helps to keep Daran organized, and that isn't easy! She loves to entertain so the family parties are at her house....I LOVE HER FOR THAT! Even though Shane asked me what I was on when I chose the color of paint for my kitchen, he is a wonderful husband for Daralyn and a doting father for their children. Bob, Kelly's husband, is just plain sweet and always willing to help Wayne if needed. Brandon is the most "prepared" person in our family. I always know he will take care of my Jaime. Even though he says he will put me in a "home" someday, he is frugal enough that he will have the money to pay for it! Last, but not least, is our Nicole. Keeping Jeff sane back in Vet School is a full-time job for her and we appreciate it so much. I love how modest she always has been and how the church is so important in her life. She is a wonderful mother and I am so thankful that she has this opportunity.
Then there are our 17 "Smart" grandchildren...Whitnee, Brookelle, Savannah, Rylee, Scotty, Hadlee, Matthew, Jordan, Jessica, Kori, Amber, Morgan, Brenden, Miles, Ammon, Michael, and baby Kamryn. They are the delight of my life!!!
I am very grateful for my church and my testimony of it. I love my country and I love where I live in it. I am grateful for a warm house, plenty of food (too much!!!) and money to pay my bills.
Happy Thanksgiving to everyone!!!
Friday, October 31, 2008
Halloween Memories, the Mostly Bad
Monday, October 27, 2008
Our Grandkids Should Be Impressed !
We happened to be in Logan that day doing some temple work and visiting my Aunt Peggy and Uncle Lex and while driving by the theater's in Providence Wayne says "Let's go see what is playing." High School Musical 3 started at 6:30 p.m. and we arrived at 6:28. There were just a handful of seats left so we ended up on the third row. The movie was great. It is so nice to know that good clean shows can be so popular.
Going to see a popular movie on opening day will probably never happen to us again. We usually wait until the movie comes to the cheaper Preston theater, but for just a brief couple of hours we felt young and foolish again! You see, sexagenarians (people in their 60's.....get your mind out of the gutter!) can have fun occasionally.
I'm also quite sure I was the only one in the theater that actually graduated from "East High School" in Salt Lake City where the movie was filmed. The school has been totally re-constructed since the old building we went to school in which was an earthquake hazard!
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
The Best Day of My Life
Friday, October 10, 2008
My Dad, Keith Kelly
That was such a shock to our family...so very unexpected. He was only 48 years old. My mom was very brave at the time but it was a real blow to our family. Dad had been transferred to San Francisco, and we were preparing to make the move. I was going to transfer to San Jose State to continue my education.
I miss my dad so much. He and I were so very close. Dad wasn't a tall man - 5'8" - and he had small feet, gray hair (which he'd had for years) and he was my hero! I vividly recall going to many Salt Lake Bees baseball games with him, and the countless hours he spent playing tether ball with me on the playground of Uintah Elementary, which was next to our home. He took me and my brother Colin on a river trip down the Colorado River for a week and I learned to appreciate the beauties of southern Utah because of him.
My dad was a huge teaser and I was the main recipient of this. I can still hear my mother saying "Keith, leave her alone!" I have a grandson, Brenden Keith, who seems to be a clone of his great-grandpa in this regard, and very properly named, I might add.
Dad loved his family and turned down a large pay increase and transfer to Omaha, Nebraska because, after visiting the city, decided he didn't want to raise his kids there. He was a religious man and was well beloved by the young men in the ward as he served as our ward's basketball coach and softball assistant coach for many years. A "Keith L. Kelly Memorial Award" was given out for years in Bonneville Stake to honor an outstanding young player.
Dad treated my mom like a queen - they held hands and he opened doors for her as long as I can remember. They were quite young at heart and were invited to the ward "Young Married" events, even when they had a son on a mission! Dad had a beautiful tenor voice and sang with the Salt Lake Barbershop Chorus for years.
My dad would have been excited when we moved to Clifton to our dairy farm as dad grew up in Lynddyl, Utah on a farm. He would have loved it up here!
Dad's time on earth was way too short and I have always felt cheated that I didn't have him longer, but I know I will see him again. I just hope I have made him proud! I LOVE YOU, DAD!!!!! You were the best dad in the world!
Saturday, October 4, 2008
My Country
Monday, September 29, 2008
Happy 31st Anniversary!
We knew each other for 3 years and had dated for 2 years before we were married. We met in the Y.S.I. (Young Special Interests) program of the LDS church for singles where we were both region officers. We dated so long that my family kept asking if we were ever going to get married - "What is taking him so long?" I actually began to wonder the same question. He was REALLY slow.....in fact, we dated for a year before he ever even kissed me. I was beginning to think that I either had bad breath or that he was gay. HE DEFINITELY WASN'T. He had to make sure before he popped the question because he was going to be an instant father to Daran and Daralyn and needed to get to know them and gain their love, which didn't take long on their part!
My original engagement ring Wayne made from baling wire. He shined up the ends and in the relative darkness of my living room it looked "antique". I loved the ring and although it was replaced a few days later with the real thing, the baling wire ring remains securely locked in our safe.
We went to Grand Canyon North Rim on our honeymoon which was an adventure we'll never forget. Since I had worked there for a summer, I figured being that late in the year we'd have the whole place to ourselves.....wrong! There was a convention of Japanese people swarming the place and since we hadn't prepaid for our room (there weren't really credit cards then) and we arrived late in the afternoon they had rented our romantic rim cabin to someone else so we had "no room at the inn". After viewing the beautiful sunset we drove 45 miles through the Kaibab forest dodging deer to Jacob's Lake and took their last cabin. It had 3 bedrooms and NO hot water! Also, the heat wouldn't come on automatically so it was COLD! After an interesting night freezing to death, I put my contact lenses in with cold water and we went back to the park to sightsee. We then had learned our lesson and attempted to make a reservation at a Holiday Inn in Page, Arizona. Noone answered the phone so we decided to drive there anyway. Well, the Holiday Inn we had called was just a pile of steel barely under construction. We managed to get a room at the Lamplighter Inn and after an embarrassing run-in with the maid, we had many memories of that place, too.
31 years later we have 5 kids, all married, and 17 grandkids and are now empty nesters. Lots of water under the bridge, some trials with losses of parents and health concerns, but we are happy and still in love. I feel very blessed that Wayne came into my life and we are trying to grow old gracefully together.Sunday, September 21, 2008
The Peaches Were Done!
An example: I arrived home on Saturday afternoon after a trip to Logan to take a granddaughter to a volleyball game and then go and visit her brother, my grandson, in the Logan hospital where Scotty has been for three days with an illness that is still undiagnosed. This grandma worries about her grandkids normally but when they are in the hospital it is greatly compounded. I mean, I don't sleep - so after two debatable nights with about 2 - 3 hours sleep I was exhausted. Still, there were my daughter-in-law's peaches to be put up. She is staying with Scotty in the hospital and, as anyone who puts up fruit knows, it won't wait! My daughter Kelly and I had decided to meet down at the house and put up the fruit.
Kelly calls from LoriAnn's house - "Mom, the peaches are done!" Angel neighbors named Sally and Wayne Jones found out there were two bushels of peaches in our son's garage, went and got them, and delivered the filled jars. I was so exhausted, mentally and physically, when I arrived back from Logan and to hear that the fruit was done.....well, I just became emotional and "lost it".
Just then another friend, Mary Penrod, delivered dinner down to the house and Dana Cox and her girls appeared to help with the fruit and seeing that it was already done helped to clean the house.
This is the kind of people who live in Clifton, Idaho! The peaches were done!
This reminded me of the time that our youngest son, Jeffrey, was in the hospital at age three months with spinal meningitis. I stayed with him in the hospital for 13 days while he recovered. When Wayne brought down Kelly and Jaime for a visit Kelly commented "Mommy, we don't even have to buy groceries anymore. Everytime we open the door someone is there with food!" I will never forget the generosity of the people in this area. I wouldn't want to live anywhere else!!!
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Kadaphee's Funeral
Friday, September 12, 2008
...and then there was the Olympic Train!
I had purchased a nice video camera for Wayne the previous November on his 50th birthday and was excited to use it to record this special event for my family, who were all too busy to see it in person. The train was coming through our valley in the late afternoon, as I recall, so I went over to the hill by Twin Lakes and joined lots of community members to witness this noteworthy event. Well, the train was taking forever to come by us so I decided to sit down and wait. Wayne has always said "Never stand when you can sit!" When the "lookout" saw the train finally approaching I stood up and, I guess, accidentally turned on the camera while doing so. Hence, when the train arrived and I turned on the camera to capture the event for posterity, I really turned it off.
Now, when I looked through the viewfinder all I could see was a black and white setting and the train in the picture, but that was okay because it would be in beautiful living color when we put the tape on to play on our television set. So, I never saw the Olympic Train and torch in color. What sacrifices we mom's don't make for our families!
Upon arriving home I was anxious to show this video to my family. Well, all that was on the tape was the ground as I was standing up. When the train actually arrived the videotaping ceased because I turned the camera off when I thought I was turning it on. My sweet family will never let me live that down! I am reminded often about mom's "Olympic Train" video.
So, if it makes my family feel any better, I didn't see the Olympic Train or torch either!
Saturday, August 30, 2008
My Mom, Betty Kelly
Mom loved cultural things like attending the Utah Symphony and many concerts at the University of Utah. She had a beautiful, strong alto voice and sang in choirs and also in a duet with a friend of hers, Al Fletcher. They sang all over the Salt Lake Valley and I would usually accompany them.
She didn't like to camp (that's one thing we have in common!) and probably had a blast doing her cultural stuff the week my dad, brother, and I floated the Colorado River.
Mom never wore glasses and had beautiful chestnut brown hair, courtesy of her hairdresser. She grayed early (that's me!!!) and I don't ever remember her not coloring her hair.
She was a great mom who could cook and sew anything, but she left me way too soon. I never really told her how I loved and appreciated her when she was alive, and I have always regretted that. I will always be grateful to her for insisting that I learn to play the piano, and play it well. I have received COUNTLESS hours of enjoyment with that talent.
Mom died of brain cancer when she was just 47 years old. I was an official orphan after that, age 20, being as how my father had already passed away. She never knew any of her 11 grandchildren or her many great- grandchildren, but I know that she held them just before they came to this earth. I love her and still miss her. I also know that I will see her again. The 26th of August is always a hard day for me.
Monday, August 25, 2008
About My Sweetheart
He moved our family to Idaho in 1979 to a dairy farm and I'm sure my mother (a very culturally refined lady) rolled over in her grave that day, but my dad (born and raised in Lynndyl, Utah) probably loved it! It was the best move for our family. Our children grew up with chores on the farm to do and no extra time to get in trouble.
Now that we are alone, he tries to take me places - around our home area, that is - and include me. He isn't much to travel...quite a homebody! I was very proud of him as he served as bishop of our ward. He put his entire being into that calling at the expense of the farm, but the members and youth loved him! I'm afraid that he works way too hard on the farm and would like to see him able to slow down, maybe retire, so we could serve an LDS mission while we are somewhat "young". I love you, husb. From your wiff.
Friday, August 22, 2008
Cousin's Camp

Cousin's Camp is something I hope to continue doing but it really gets harder the older I get and the larger the number of camper's gets. Next year we will rent a lodge so they have plenty of space to roam.
A requirement of Cousin's Camp is to be 3 years old and potty trained. It is surprising how quickly that occurs. We started out with 4 little girls and now next year should have 14 campers. HELP!!! A suggestion to anyone contemplating this idea.....start when they are older!
We have had 7 Cousin's Camps now and we are just getting started!
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Giving This Blog Thing a Try
Our main interests, besides each other, are family (5 kids, 5 in-law kids, and 17 beautiful grandchildren) and our LDS church. We live in peaceful little Clifton and try to make a living on a dairy farm. "Retirement" is a word that is spoken of often lately, however.
Wish us luck in this new adventure. Since Wayne is totally computer illiterate and I am not a whole lot better, this should be interesting!